“Life is full of uncertainty. There is nothing permanent in this world. The world is a constant change and you’ve got nothing to do but to get along with it and enjoy what life has to offer.”
Have you ever woken up in the middle of the night feeling paralyzed? Because you finally know what a fucking idiot you are for wanting to go back to the place that broke you; for wanting to reconcile with the person who left you hanging; for wanting to put back the pieces even that means hurting yourself again. Crazy as it sounds but it’s crazy and stupid, yes. A sudden thought suddenly pop into your head. A sudden thought that is like a cold water pouring into you. A sudden awakening thought that goes “Why should I try harder to be with someone who is the main reason of the miseries I went through? I would no longer be the one who constantly making an effort, where in the first place, this is what he wanted. If someone wants to be a part of my life, he’d done anything to be with me. No ifs and no buts.” A relationship is a give and take. You can’t be the one who always gives and receives nothing in return. For some, they call it unconditional love. But for me, I call it martyrdom.You can’t wipe his ass every time he shits. If you know what I mean.
As they said, there is nothing permanent in this world. The world is changing and we’re designed flexible and adaptable, we get along with the change until it changed you. Your perspective would eventually change; you get to think more apprehensively. You get to realized what is good and what is damaging for you, and over the long haul, you’d choose to let go and hold on to the things that could and would make you happier. You get wiser. And once you have tasted the real freedom and happiness, you become unstoppable. We can’t be stuck on something that isn’t here anymore. Learn to move forward, even if it’s little or baby steps, it would make a huge difference. Why, yes to adventures!
Just like Bruno Mars says on one of his songs, I will break these chains that bind me, happiness will find me. Leave the past behind me, today my life begins .A whole new world is waiting it’s mine for the taking. I know I can make it today my life begins. We all have our choices in life. Life isn’t complicated, as they say, it is us who make our lives complicated. If you want to be happy then be, if you want to live in a miserable life, then be.You can live your life happily and set your own rules or you can chain yourself from something that you can no longer have. Either way, it is all up to you to choose.
It’s okay to weep and wallow for the people who are long gone
It’s okay to be sad,
It’s okay to be angry,
It’s okay to cry,
It’s okay to still love the person who hurt us and to want another shot,
It’s okay to lick your own wounds in the middle of the night,
It’s okay to cry buckets of tears,
It’s okay to realize that the problem is not you,
It’s okay to let go of the things that are hurting you,
It’s okay to move on,
It’s okay to stop thinking what if,
and it’s totally okay to start thinking what is.
It’s okay to say yes to new adventures;
It’s okay to lose and find yourself back again.
It’s okay to be happy,
It’s okay to look forward and never look back…
It’s okay… You’ll be okay..
I’ve been there and done that…