“My dear Wrong Woman…
You will never find peace in the arms of another woman’s man.
What you will find is yourself one day in that woman’s shoes,
feeling the same heartache and the same feelings of betrayal that you caused her when he one day does the same thing to you.
“You will never find happiness in the sorrows of another woman. In time, her sorrows will become your own.” -Mr. Amari Soul
“I am so happy that you are finally gone. I have him fully. I have his full attention. All his free times are mine. He is always ready to pick up the phone in just two to three rings, and one call, he’s right here beside me as fast as the flash of lightning. I couldn’t ask for more! You bitch! Continue living in a miserable world. He’s mine. Only mine. You’re just one of his doormats. I told you so. Leech!”
So you got him. He’s all yours. So what’s your problem? Live busily, happily, and humbly. Rejoicing in somebody’s heartbreak would give you satisfaction in a short while but soon enough all the burdens and heartaches that she has experienced would be yours. If you think that your life is as bright as the broad daylight and hers is as dark as a stormy night, just remember that the world is rotating. What goes around comes back around.
The most pathetic person in the world is someone who can’t find the serenity to mind her own fucking business after getting what she wants— seems like getting the man she has been desiring for a long time isn’t enough that she still have the need to stalk every move of the ex and retaliate afterwards. Because no matter how much she denies it, she couldn’t hide the pathetic truth that is stirring on her face that no matter how much she twists and turns her body after a long tiring quake with him, she would never ever have his heart and his loyalty. In other words, you are pathetic. Because if you are secured with the relationship that you have, you won’t ever do such vicious things in the first place.That is the curse that you’re going to carry for the rest of your life being the wrong woman.
Oftentimes, women put their paws up when they feel threatened towards other women which is pretty normal. We are taught to take care of what we have and never let anybody to take that away from us. We, humans, are possessive by nature, we automatically think that we own that person because we have an intimate relationship with them. But the thing is that we don’t have any rights to own anybody. Owning a person can lead into possessiveness and in a worst case, selfishness. In a relationship, we tend to be possessive towards our significant others. That is fine, what is wrong is that your possessiveness eats you alive that turn you into a jealous and insecure person. A healthy relationship should make you feel secure. An unhealthy relationship makes you anxious.Nevertheless, the best kind of love is to love someone without hurting and stomping others feeling.
1 Corinthians 13:4-7
4 Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. 5 It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. 6 Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. 7 It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.